02.1Understanding the Context
Social contexts refer to geographical isolation, family separation and out-of-home care. Each disturbs a young child's stable relationships and access to community support in a different way. According to attachment theory, there may be an increase in proximity seeking, withdrawal or vigilance in cases of multiple transitions or conflict around transitions to/from previous caregiving settings. Bronfenbrenner's ecological systems theory considers the services of individuals and groups outside the child's immediate circle, which will influence what happens within the circle, such as transport, court procedures, and casework systems, as well as limited services in rural communities (Bronfenbrenner & Morris, 2006). There were 49,158 divorces in 2025 in Australia (Australian Bureau of Statistics [ABS], 2026). The Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander (ATSI) prevalence of children in out-of-home care was eleven times higher than non-Indigenous prevalence on 30 June 2024 (AIHW, 2025a). This is due to over-representation owing to colonization and structural inequality, not cultural deficit.
02.2Impact on Children and Families
Grief, loyalty issues and disrupted routines can be a few consequences of separation. Playgroups, specialist services and respite can be limited with isolation. Children in care can feel feelings of loss, multiple placements, and a loss or unclear sense of belonging. Changing enrolments can disrupt learning, and stress can manifest as aggression, controlling play, quietness, or difficulty with changes. Curiosity is the answer, not punishment for these behaviours. Services must provide inclusive forms that mention several caregivers, precise authorized-pick-up protocols, and privacy-sensitive communication between households. Teach children to document in such a way that it is in conjunction with caretakers and case workers; ensure that the child's story is protected. Aboriginal children need cultural safety, to be connected to Country, kin and community, and to be supported by Aboriginal community-controlled organisations.
Age, disability, culture, experience of relationships and how well adults manage their conflicts all make a difference in the experience of social disruption. Some children will adapt to two safe homes; others will be distressed at the unpredictability of the arrangements. Similarly, placement is not the outcome; continuity and stability in relationships and culture are the outcome. Teachers should refrain from requesting children to serve as messengers for adults or elaborate on legal arrangements. Communication should take place using agreed chains and with the same factual learning update round (if authorized) and sensitive topics separately. Materials of the child's life story should be included in the child's support plan and should not be on public display without their consent. Digital contact can prolong consultation but can no longer compensate for being able to "touch". It is important to have physical contact with someone, travel, internet access, and lack of services for those of us living in more isolated rural areas. It is important to review with the family what works for each of them, what the child does, and what the role of each professional is. If multiple agencies are in play, there is less duplication and potentially conflicting information through a single contact pathway that was agreed upon. Success can be measured by ease of arrival, length of participation in play, and increase in comfort-seeking behavior/attendance. These are relational signals and not a sign of a loss coming to an end. Constant reflection is necessary since anniversaries, contact- or placement decisions can elicit feelings long after educators have presumed that adjustment is finished. This type of coordination prevents children from unnecessary disruption of their relationship.
02.3Social Policy and Australian Responses
The National Framework for Protecting Australia's Children 2021-2031 is focused on prevention and coordinated support (Department of Social Services, 2021). Care and protection in NSW is managed by the Children and Young Persons (Care and Protection) Act 1998, and parenting after separation is determined by the Family Law Act 1975. Prevention, partnership, placement, participation and connection are the five elements of the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Child Placement Principle. The national out-of-home-care rate was close to eight children out-of-home per 1,000 in the year 2023 to 2024 (AIHW, 2025b). In practice, policy demands that educators maintain accurate factual documentation, comply with guidelines (information-sharing rules) and assist with cultural plans but not assume the role of an investigator or family-law adviser.
02.4Strategies for Practice
- Key educator relationship: Involve the same educator for the child who is receptive and attuned to the child's cross-day changes (Australian Institute of Family Studies [AIFS], 2024a). Secure continuity in staff rostering, insofar as possible.
- Identifiable handovers: co-plan goodbye/reunion routines with each approved carer. Utilize the same visual cue and tone of voice in both homes/placements.
- Inclusive "Identity Work": produce a child-led photo book which may involve parents, kin, carers and beneficial community members (SNAICC, 2025). Avoid the one traditional family tree.
- Trauma-aware transitions: Provide advance warning, limited options and sensory regulation prior to transitions (Emerging Minds, 2025a). Take note of what helps instead of labeling the child as difficult.
- Culturally governed planning: Plan with the Aboriginal child in care via the case worker, using advice from the appropriate Aboriginal organisation (AIHW, 2025a). Integrate approved cultural-plan actions into everyday practice.
02.5Community and Professional Partnerships
| Partner | Role | Collaboration |
|---|---|---|
| NSW Department of Communities and Justice | Statutory child protection | Clarify orders, authorised contacts and case responsibilities. |
| Life Without Barriers | Out-of-home-care provider | Coordinate with carers and therapeutic teams. |
| Relationships Australia NSW | Separation support | Refer families for counselling and post-separation parenting support. |
| Playgroup NSW | Social connection | Link isolated carers with local or supported playgroups. |
| SNAICC or local ACCO | Cultural authority | Guide cultural safety, kinship connection and community-led decisions. |
02.6Resources for Educators and Children
Projects and programs 4 resources
| Resource | Application | Link |
|---|---|---|
| AIFS Child Family Community Australia | Evidence summaries for family and care practice. | Child Family Community Australia | AIFS |
| Emerging Minds OOHC webinar | Child-centred guidance that includes First Nations perspectives. | emergingminds.com.au (OOHC) |
| SNAICC Family Matters | Current evidence and advocacy on First Nations children in care. | snaicc.org.au/family-matters |
| Playgroup NSW | Find community playgroups that reduce isolation. | Playgroup NSW |
Children's storybooks, birth to five 4 books
| Resource | Application | Link |
|---|---|---|
| Two Homes, Claire Masurel | Normalises routines and love across two parental homes. | amazon.in/Two-Homes |
| The Invisible String, Patrice Karst | Supports felt connection during separation, with adult guidance. | sevenponds.com book review |
| Kissed by the Moon, Alison Lester | A gentle Australian bedtime text that reinforces safety and belonging. | Kissed by the Moon, Google Books |
| A Family Is a Family Is a Family, Sara O'Leary | Invites children to recognise many valid family forms. | apa.si.edu bookdragon review |
Children's videos, shows and podcasts 4 items
| Resource | Application | Link |
|---|---|---|
| Bluey: Camping | Discuss connection, separation and remembering a friend. | hercampus.com Bluey Camping |
| Little Yarns | Share First Nations languages and Country through co-listening. | Little Yarns, ABC Kids Listen |
| Sesame Workshop: Family Changes | Use short clips to name feelings about changing caregivers. | Family Bonding, Sesame Workshop |
| ABC Kids Listen | Select calm stories and music for predictable transition routines. | ABC Kids Listen |
